John Loses his Two Boys
For a few months, until he goes to court, John’s ex Girl Friend Kelly Beale and her mother Sally Beale have stopped access to his boys. It always amazes me why people use young children as a battering ram for their vengeance on another individual, the break up of the relationship has caused a great deal of emotional problems in the children already with out the added stress of this upheaval. Sally the mother has in my mind is a rather unhealthy influence over her daughter; she once said to me that she had brought up her 3 children by herself (her husband died when they were young) and she saw no reason why a man should be involved in the upbringing of children accept for providing funds. A rather weird perception of life and the rearing of children..
Has John done anything wrong? Well yes he on several occasions he has responded to his ex girlfriends vicious tongue by calling her names with special references to farmyard animals that is all. It seems a women can say or do what ever she likes and is believed without any one checking the validity of their complaints. It is rumoured both Kelly and Sally have bragged that the forthcoming court case will cost John a £1,000 and it will teach him a lesson, funnily it will cost me the money because John has to finance not just himself but the boys as well and does not have the funds. What an attitude as I have said that £1000 could have been spent on the boy’s future. The irony of this whole episode is that Kelly asked John to leave, as she no longer loved him, strange world. I have to admit that she is succeeding in hurting John and the rest of our family as we all love the boys dearly but the difference with our family if an expert (one that is totally unbiased) said to us it is in the real interest of the children that you do not see the children again until they are 16 we would be heart broken but we would accept it but that is the difference between true love of your family and ownership of them.
Martin Clarke